This Was Not Part Of My Five Year Plan

*Like the side hustle article this was also originally published on LinkedIn but also feels relevant for the blog :).

If I were to meet myself from five years ago, I feel I might not recognize her — at the very least, I’m almost certain she wouldn’t recognize the person I’ve become. Five years ago, like most college students, I was trying to navigate through life, to prove my worth to potential employers, and to figure out what it means to have a career. When I landed an internship at LinkedIn, I felt like I hit the jackpot — my career had been set. Little did I know how transformative my professional journey would be.

If you told me five years ago I would leave my job to pursue my own projects, that too in the wellness space, I would have looked back at you with a dumbfounded blank stare. That was never supposed to be in the cards for me. It was definitely not part of the the five year plan I had perfected to a T while preparing for my job interviews.

It’s serendipitous that my own wellness journey began right around the time I started at LinkedIn. In the last four years I’ve held three different roles in advertising, market research, and sales analytics, but that only covers a portion of my journey. I’ve also ran three half marathons, a handful of Turkey Trots, and an obstacle course race — all thanks to LinkedIn’s amazing wellness program! I’m grateful my passion and career coincided.

My career in wellness began with this simple blog about a year ago. Then I received my first group fitness certification, created an online community for women, worked with multiple brands and now, I’m developing a healthy Indian food recipe eBook with my mother. Only time will tell what else is in store for the future.

Perhaps ironically, the knowledge I have gained at LinkedIn is what has given me the confidence to leave. From writing content with some of our best marketers to learning how to tell stories with data, LinkedIn has given me the tools to succeed regardless on the role or industry I choose.

Not to say that I know everything quite yet. In fact, I have a huge learning curve ahead of me and I know there will be many restless nights during which I’ll question my decision to leave. I don’t know what success looks like for me yet, but I know this leap will get me one step closer to finding my version of it.

Thank you to all who have been with me through this incredible journey.

Introducing the C&G Girl Gang!

What started on a whim ended up being the best decision I could have made for Citrus & Gold. Introducing…the C&G Girl Gang!

The C&G Girl Gang is a community of women interested in making health and wellness a priority. It’s a forum for women to ask questions, share advice, and connect with other bad-ass women. I’m focusing on building awareness especially for South Asian women but all women are welcome . Sorry men, I don’t mean to exclude but I do want to create a safe, open environment for women specifically.

My mission is to help women take control of their lives to become healthier, happier, and bolder. As much as I like posting on my blog and social media sometimes I feel like the conversations are one-sided. I don’t get to hear what matters for YOU guys quite enough. Or if I do, the conversations end up being quite superficial. Blogging can be pretty lonely at times and I knew I wanted to create something that fosters authentic communication. So on a random Tuesday night I started a FB group, called it the C&G Girl Gang, created a header on Canva and there it was.

At first I thought there would be maybe 20, 30 friends interested but I’m happy to say we have over 150 women from all across the world in the group! It’s been so amazing seeing others connect and bond. One of my friends published a beautiful article on Brown Girl Magazine through connecting with a couple of girls in the group.

We are brainstorming meet-ups, book-clubs and much more! We are all so excited to how it transforms in a organic, authentic manner.

If you are interested in joining you can request access here. Hope to see you there .

How I am Making the Tone it Up Bikini Series My Own

 

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This year I’ve finally decided to participate in the Tone It Up Bikini Series: an 8 week fitness challenge hosted by the founders of Tone It Up, Karena & Katrina. It’s a big step for me because I’ve never successfully completed a fitness challenge before.

Some challenges had way too many rules, other’s didn’t speak to me, but other times I just I didn’t believe in myself. Not too long ago, I was still working on improving my relationship with food & exercise. Whoa, I think that’s the first time I’m ever mentioning that online. That’s a big deal for me.

I’d find myself obsessing over my food & body much more than I’d like. I’d compare myself to others far too much and spent too much time criticizing my own flaws. I was aware of my somewhat “unhealthy mindset” and I knew a fitness challenge may make me focus more on the superficial than I should.

It’s taken me a lot of trial and error to get to where I am now but I am at the point where I feel comfortable and happy with my relationship with fitness. I’m ready to give this challenge a shot.

I’m someone who marches to the beat of their own drum so I don’t think I’d be successful if I tried to follow all the rules of the challenge. For example, I’m not exactly following the TIU meals on their nutrition plan nor I am doing all of the TIU workouts. They do, however, serve as helpful guidelines.

Everyone has different goals for the Bikini Series but here are my top 3 I’d like to achieve:

My Goals:

  1. Successfully complete my first challenge. Really all I want is to keep my motivation going for 8 weeks. And I want to make sure I continuously love and accept myself the way I am the entire way through it. One week down already!
  2. Become a morning person: my goal is to wake up by 6:30 at least 4 times a week to either get in a morning workout (aka “Booty Call”) or to take time to write for my blog. Two of those four days I teach, so it’s really only 2 more days I need to get motivated for.
  3. Prep my meals. I’m lucky to be fed both breakfast and lunch at work so I really only need to prepare one healthy snack and dinner for each day. I easily get stressed/overwhelmed by cooking and I want this challenge to make my life easier! I’ll definitely be using the meal plan for inspiration.

I know I wouldn’t be sticking to this challenge without my accountability groups. I’m part of two group threads with other women who are participating in this challenge. We don’t only talk about working out, but literally everything and anything in life. Everyone is so supportive and kind. I’m a bit introverted so I was scared I’d be overwhelmed but it is quite nice I must say :).

Okay that’s all I have to say about the Bikini Series now. I feel even more accountable sharing this online.

Do you have any questions about it? Shall I do another update in a few weeks? Are you doing it as well? Let me know in the comments below!